How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 01:47
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Is the Shia claim true that Imam Ali was born inside the Kaaba?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What would you do if you found out that someone had broken into your home while you were sleeping?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Why do people with trauma easily recognize other people with trauma through eye contact?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What are some effective ways to cope with loss and grief?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What are some mind-blowing facts about Michael Jackson?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Does not procrastinate.
Are you afraid to get married and why?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
That's it for today.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
As an inmate did you have to live alongside a bully for your whole sentence?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Have you ever been humiliated in front of a group of girls and enjoyed it?
Making more friends is a goal.
Ask yourself:
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.